Often you can find more clarity in a gray area than in blinding light or complete darkness.
Put your whole self into each moment, into each experience. Give your focus, your energy, your love and purpose to the undertaking.
Do what you do not just to get it done. Do it also as a way of exercising and strengthening your competence.
With one positive effort and then another, spiral upward. Discover that there's no limit to how high you can go.
What you're focused on is what you empower. Focus on a hopeful future, not on a difficult past.
Time will pass, conditions will change, various issues will come and go. Through it all, keep going.
The option to choose is the most honest option. It may not be the easiest choice in the moment, yet it will be the most effective choice in the long run.