Trauma makes you feel like you're responsible for other people's moods so you drain yourself and make sure they feel okay. Healing makes you realize it's not your responsibility to regulate their emotions, manage their insecurities, heal their wounds, and calm their inner storms

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If you are reading this, may Allah remove your pain, worries, problems and replace them with health, happiness and peace.

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Jangan pernah kedekut untuk diri sendiri. Kalau rasa nak sesuatu benda tu, just beli je. Jangan rasa menyesal or what. Kalau nak sedapkan hati, anggap je ‘self reward’.

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people don’t understand how draining it can be to try to explain what's happening inside your head. no one knows when you’re struggling to understand it yourself, there are times when you just unintentionally feel sad and start to feel alone.

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Korang jaga la diri. Zaman sekarang banyak orang tak betul and banyak orang yang tak suka kita without any reason and boleh buat macam macam kat kita. Jaga diri. Pergi tido.

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Jika kau hadapkan jiwa dan ragamu kepada Allah, DIA akan hadapkan rahmat dan cinta-Nya kepadamu.

Al-Habib Umar bin Hafidz ~

#KalamUlama

Allah loves you more than you could ever love yourself. Therefore, no matter whatever life throws at you, never throw your life away.

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‎Percayalah di saat engkau ikhlas dengan keadaanmu, di situlah Allah merencanakan kebahagiaan untukmu. Allah amatlah mampu mengubah situasi paling terpuruk menjadi momen terbaik dalam hidupmu.

‎— Ustadz Syafiq Riza Basalamah حفظه الله

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Nampak ringan di bibir tapi berat di timbangan

3x Subhanallah

3x Alhamdulilah

1x la ilaha illallah

4x Allahu akbar

1x La Hawla wala quwwata ila billah

3x Astagfirullah

3x Allahumma innii as alukal jannah
wa a'uudzu bika minan-naar

2x Allahumma innaka afuwwun tuhibbul 'afwa fa'fu anni

2x Allahumma inni as'aluka ridhoka wal Janah

Rasulullah SAW bersabda:

"Siapa yang menyampaikan 1 ilmu saja dariku, dan ada yang mengamalkan nya, maka walaupun engkau sudah tiada(meninggal) pahala tetap mengalir untukmu".

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"sabar anak yang jarang dilihat dan dihargai"

Life can be hard to understand at times. No matter how good you are to them, don’t expect them to treat you the same. Sometimes the people you love the most, turn out to be the ones you can trust the least.

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Allah said in the Quran "I will never burden a soul with anything more than it can carry" so whatever it is you're going through, no matter how hard know that Allah knows you can get through it and you have to believe in His promise.

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Kita selalu kaitkan perkara yang negatif dengan ujian.

Sakit, kemiskinan, kegagalan dan banyak lagilah.

Betullah. Semua tu ujian.

Tapi, jangan tak tahu. Perkara yang baikpun boleh jadi satu bentuk ujian.

Kesempurnaan, kecantikan dan kekayaan semua tu pun boleh jadi ujian ya.

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Aku harap sehari sebelum aku meninggal dunia, Tuhan akan tergerakkan hati aku untuk delete semua social media dan minta maaf dekat semua orang. Moga dipermudahkan.

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Dear someone, it's okay to feeling down but you have to be strong. Even kau rasa sedih, kecewa dan nak give up. Trust me, Allah will make it easier for you.

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Sometime kita takde niat pun nak kurang ajar dengan orang lain. Tapi ada setengah orang ni rasa dia je yang terpaling betul. Dia sorang je bagus, sampai hilang rasa hormat. Ingat ya, semua orang ada limit kesabaran. So, don't test me. I can be 100% rude if you start first. Sorry.

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What I can & can’t control?

Can:
My Nafs, Thoughts, words, action, behaviour, morals, values, beliefs, reactions, modesty, responsibilities, Salah, expectations, manners, maturity, expectations and mindset

Can’t:
Allah’s timing, Qadr outcomes, the past, changing people, the future, people’s perceptions of me, Dua response time

So just leave it to Allah and be better on what you can control.

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it’s extremely important to learn how to be ok on your own. you have to learn how to pick yourself back up when you fall, provide for yourself, wipe ur tears away & make yourself happy. having people there for you is truly great but you can't depend on them to always be there

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If you live your life making decisions based on what others will think of you, it’s time for a rethink. Where does the Almighty figure in your equation? Get your priorities right.

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Allah itu tahu segala yang ada dalam fikiran atau pun hati kita. Sama ada kita nyatakan melalui lidah kita atau tak, tetaplah Allah itu Maha Tahu.

Namun, mengakui dosa kita dalam setiap taubat kita, menyebutkan setiap dosa kita dihadapan Allah itu adalah sesuatu yang Allah suka.

Iya, dalam keadaan Allah itu tetap tahu apa yang kita dah lalukan, kita tetap sebutkan juga.

Itu tanda kita jujur dengan Allah. Kita mengaku kita lemah, kita menyesal dan kita tak mahu ulangi lagi. Bahkan kita berjanji untuk menjadi yang lebih baik selepas ini.